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Forgiveness is psychologically correct, because otherwise I am not free. Unforgiveness is like a thread that binds me to the other people - the war his rope to it, and it also affects me. It is believed that forgiveness no3 is an act of will, but it is important to get out emotions encapsulated in man.
"Forgiveness - as if everyday thing, but it is larger context, which can also be seen philosophical or religious system. In a way, I am convinced that thoughts about the importance of forgiveness influenced by the Christian worldview. But it can also speak of Hinduism in the context where the emphasis on guilt and its (karma) redemption through good works. no3 Often we think alike - feeling guilty, rather than looking for reconciliation, urging to go direct contact and a confession, but getting yourself judges choose the penalties and "atmazgājamies", as if it would not be anything to do with the other people who wronged sure family Therapist Sandis Cartwright, reflecting the concept that by its very nature is extremely no3 simple, but also very complex, because it creates a game with guilt and a whole pile of emotions. Some even have the strongest tendency iekapsulēties man and sit for years indējot world view.
"We as individuals appreciate how intense relationships with others want. Soiree, for example, can with some flip klaču, but because neaicināsim their home at my desk. In relationships important as urgent becomes the question of guilt and forgiveness, "continues Sandis, outlining a number of interaction circles - family, friends, relatives and society as a whole. Each works a peculiar accounting, which computes the who who gave and are owed.
"My understanding of the invitation is - 50 to 50. Of course, at the end of the week nesēdīšos calculator to calculate how ice cream I bought a friend and he told me how. Apportionment of liability should be adequate, but often lack the balance when I expect from each other more than they should. This in turn leads to frustration and started to blame him. If a friend is holding a border and feels guilty in a situation that called emotional exploitation. It would be healthy, if a person takes responsibility for his life, without the other, "says family therapist, revealing guilt and blaming the slippery nature of the phenomenon, which is directly related to the apology, forgiveness and reconciliation searches. Had to be done if we want to maintain the relationship, however, think that others often do not make no-fault guilty. In particular, no3 it is difficult for a parent-child relationship, which is by definition asymmetric offspring always remain debtors. Parents can use this lever and blamed for why, for example, children do not go to visit and do not care enough about them. "
The search for reconciliation relations not only residential side, but also much deeper level of forgiveness, play a decisive role. "There are people who affect no3 our lives, leaving a long-term and lasting impression. If a stranger I caused, usually angered nošķendējos, and with it all ends. However, if the offender is a close relative, they are no longer anger and aversion that persists, but resentment and bitterness. As manure in the soul, so the question arises as to how they can get out. If such cases are many, they are poisoning our view of the world, it becomes dark and drab place, but all the people seem rascals. In fact, they are neatreaģētas anger and inability to forgive, especially on a large scale turns into an acid that eats away at people from within, "says S.Ratnieks encouraged to choose forgiveness, even though the offender aware of their guilt and regret. However, you may find that it is very difficult to implement because of the process no3 involved in emotions.
"Forgiveness is psychologically correct, because otherwise I am not free. Unforgiveness is like a thread that binds me to the other people - the war his rope to it, and it also affects me. It is believed that forgiveness is an act of will, but it is important to get out emotions encapsulated in man. Opposite should be someone who as an agent helps them pull out of everyday life it is very hard to do. Frequently seen in the so-called leakage phenomenon, because anger is looking for an object, and gets the man who does not deserve it. How Bistrupa caricature of the boss, who uzbļauj subordinate, he will come home - to his wife, and in turn - a son, he kicks the dog, and the dog bites boss. The circle closed! "Depicts a family therapist, as a solution to the recommendation, such as negotiations with the abuser. "However, it can turn into a dangerous challenge because the person who hurt me, such behavior could ridicule or razed to the ground, but it is an opportunity to get the message, which reduces the intensity of the emotion."
"Ideally it should be so that the mind is led by feelings, no3 because otherwise they would never forgive discourages. We have one b